2014 in Review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2014 annual report for this blog.

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A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 3,100 times in 2014. If it were a cable car, it would take about 52 trips to carry that many people.

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MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY

Empire State BuildingExcuse me!  I really have no excuse for writing a post like this other than the fact that I was truly motivated by a reblog on THE ARCHITECT’S DIARY.

You can read the original post directly on http://www.lifeofanarchitect.com/motivation/.

A post is best when it causes the reader to think, to learn a lesson or to conjure memories.  For me several thoughts developed from this post…stream-of-consciousness style.  And there is absolutely no excuse for my tardiness in getting this to Linda on Saturday except that the Motivational Monday article only came out today.

First the idea of being an architect, a builder, morphed itself into the concept of edification or edify—to use both noun and verb forms.  The architect’s motivational article also edified, built a positive concept and drew our attention to detail. More on that later.

Then the title itself, “Motivational Monday,” made me wonder if the author believed that Monday were the first day of the week.  Initially I thought he would tell us what to do on a Sunday or how to use our Sundays productively, and I had a plethora of thoughts along those lines.  Medical personnel tell us that taking a deliberate rest to rejuvenate our minds and bodies is an absolute necessity.  After all God rested on the 7th day from all His labors and Jews have observed a Sabbath throughout their generations.  The body and the mind both need refurbishing, regeneration and rejuvenation.

Another trail of the mind led into the derivation of words being used.  The 21st Century word motivate is defined as an inducement, reason, purposefulness, or goal.  Other synonyms could be:

1. incentive, inspiration, motive, stimulus, reason, spur, impulse, persuasion, inducement, incitement, instigation, carrot and stick Money is my motivation.

2. inspiration, drive, desire, ambition, hunger, interest The team may be lacking motivation for next week’s game.

Quotes from that same thesaurus are listed below:

1. Good intentions … like very mellow and choice fruit, they are difficult to keep —G. Simmons

2. (I simply) ran out of motives, as a car runs out of gas —John Barth

3. The true motives of our actions, like the real pipes of an organ, are usually concealed —Charles Caleb Colton

An architect draws, designs and builds buildings or edifices—some larger than others.  For Christians, the Greek word edify is also one aspect of the work of the church. The Greek word #3619 oikodome, from which is translated our New Testament word “edification,” means “(the act of) building, building up — in the N.T. metaph., edifying, edification, i.e. the act of one who promotes another’s growth in Christian wisdom, piety, holiness” Edification refers to the spiritual strengthening of the church, doing that which results in the body of Christ being built up. The word edify comes from the same word as edifice which has to do with a building—NT:3618 oikodomeo (oy-kod-om-eh’-o); from the same as NT:3619; to be a house-builder, i.e. construct or (figuratively) confirm: It comes from 3619 – architecture.

It is good to consider speaking in order to edify. We can speak that which is good to the use of edifying, and we can speak things that tear down (1 Thess. 5:11). We are told to speak that which edifies, which builds up.  Ephesians 4:11-12—The Lord has made provision for the edifying of the church.  “And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ”  Part of this is speaking the truth in love that we may grow up into Him.  We are to speak that which edifies, that causes us to be built up, to grow up into Christ (Eph. 5:15; Rom. 15:12; Rom. 14:19).

Whew!  My thoughts go on and on as I read other parts of this message—truly a Motivational Monday and Stream-of Consciousness too!

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UNITY

A.W. Tozer once posed a question, “Has it ever occurred to you that one hundred pianos all tuned to the same fork are automatically tuned to each other? They are of one accord by being tuned, not to each other, but to another standard to which each one must individually bow. So hundreds of Christians meeting together, each one looking to Christ will be of one accord.”

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Fighting the Beauty Epidemic for Our Daughters

 

Recently I saw a movie trailer about the sexual focus our media uses to drive the lives of our children.  I was repulsed.  Then there are the violent games and movies, which control them too.  This article discusses one of the issues mothers all need to face.

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Sasha of MomLifeNow wrote this article about her child.  See the main article and subscribe to her blog at: http://momlifenow.com/2014/06/17/fighting-the-beauty-epidemic-for-our-daughters/

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She showed up at our place around Christmas. A gift from a relative for my two year old daughter, who at the time gave her little interest. This past month she was rediscovered in a pile of toys and suddenly became the “mommy” to go along with our “dad.” I was recruited to play along, and suddenly, as now a mom, I began to see Barbie in an entirely different light: Her beauty, her sex appeal, her toned figure and large breasts.

She is perfect.

She is the image we are giving to our little girls. Not just grown women are being touched by our beauty epidemic:

One study reported girls as young as three years old being concerned with body image.

Three

years

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Everywhere you turn it smacks you in the face, throwing itself upon our precious daughters. As much as we try to shield them, throw all the Barbie dolls into the dumpster, it is still there.

The billboard as we drive down the road; the magazine at the check out line; the banner as we walk through the mall; the commercial playing on the restaurant’s television. All this before they even enter preschool.

It is everywhere. We know it is.

What can we do about it?

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What if the emphases of our house had nothing to do with physical looks, and instead the attributes of true beauty?

Love

Compassion

Kindness

Forgiveness

Society reflects on physical beauty, obsesses about it. What if we took the focus off of it? Thinking more on the needs of others than ourselves. Our passion becoming them rather than a pretty face.

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What if our family began to help children not as fortunate as ourselves? Those who have been injured, are sick, are dying. Our heart crying to bring a ray of light and hope their way–they who do not care how skinny we come, how much our hair shines.

What if we began to read about other people? Those whose bellies stick out from hunger and not anorexia.  Our tears shed for their pain instead of our shapeless figure or stubby fingers.

My children are young and yet my daughter, according to research, is already so old.

Will you join me?

Let us fight for our girls.

May they not struggle in the ways we did. May they not see a mom worrying about her figure, but instead filled with the worry of how to bring love and help to all those in need. May they not see themselves as too short, too tall, too fat, too thin, but rather as strong and capable girls, ready to bring comfort and hope to those hurting inside.

Is my dream too big? Am I shooting for the impossible? I do not know. This is my first time being a mom.

I do know I am going to try.

With everything in me I am going to try.

In our house, may passion and focus be not pretty dresses and shoes, although they are nice to wear some days. May our fervor be for the one who has traded in her dress for a hospital gown; the one who could never afford such a nice thing; the one who does not even know what a pretty dress is.

May true beauty forever be our goal.

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She showed up at our place around Christmas. A gift from a relative for my two year old daughter, who at the time gave her little interest. This past month she was rediscovered in a pile of toys and suddenly became the “mommy” to go along with our “dad.” I was recruited to play along, and suddenly, as now a mom, I began to see Barbie in an entirely different light: Her beauty, her sex appeal, her toned figure and large breasts.

She is perfect.

She is the image we are giving to our little girls. Not just grown women are being touched by our beauty epidemic:

One study reported girls as young as three years old being concerned with body image.

Three

years

old

IMG_1511

Everywhere you turn it smacks you in the face, throwing itself upon our precious daughters. As much as we try to shield them, throw all the…

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One Liner Wednesday: MEMORIES–Homeward Bound

Isharah, our youngest daughter, wrote this for her 12th grade English class 11/15/91, just before her 15th birthday January 9, 1992.

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Thomas Wolfe has said, “You can’t go home again.”  Perhaps he meant that when an adult returns to the place of his childhood it really isn’t the same because the man himself has changed.  As I approach adulthood, I wonder whether my memories will serve me and make me feel as I have in the past about things I meet in the future.

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